. Everyone and every political party has its own interests, and it is sincere to recognize self-interest. Pursuing to selflessness could become a goal, but it's not the best one, the best goal is the unity of individual interests and the interests of others.

Why do we pursue the truth and morality? because they are the tools to realize personal interests. There are various doctrines and values in the history that make countless people fanatical and dedicated. However, it was known that only personal interests is the foundation after the fever. The fanaticism of these doctrine is a form of alienation. But it does not work without these doctrines, because people need these tools.

Lifting Your Veil

American films often end in a good Marriage, they have a highest regard for love. Love is the most intense emotion of people, it can produce the most intense joy and sorrow. Therefore, the celebration of love by the Americans represent the desire of all mankind's sincere feelings.

Egoism is true, altruism is good. When it comes to truth and goodness, we always rank the truth first. Deng Xiaoping's  proposal of letting some people get rich first is the recognition of individualism as the value of justice.

To protect one's own interests will harm others, and this kind of damages are fair to a certain extent. Buying things with bargain will damage the interests of sellers; If you take the championship in the arena, and your opponent cannot take it, then you undermine his benefits. This is a kind of behavior of harming others to benefit oneself. But everyone thinks it is good.

Self-interest is a beautiful bride, there is no need to hide her (Chinese bride used to veil her face in the wedding). It is self-deception not to admit selfish. Everyone always wear a selfless mask and show integrity, greathearted and courtesy to others. It is both rational and irrational. Japanese have many etiquette, keeping bowing, which sometimes make people feel very hypocritical. Chinese people speak very modestly, but deuced modesty will also make others feel them hypocritical.

In the 1950s to 1960s, Chinese people really believed that the government serviced people wholeheartedly, but later the reality made everyone feel deceived. Then the entire social system of value collapsed completely. People changed from total selflessness to total selfishness. As a result, general mood of society was ruin and government officials were corrupted. The big offenders caught in recent years have all been corrupted since 1990s. It can be seen that self-interest cannot be concealed, or the result is backfired.

Family Love and Maternal Love

Confucianism believes that each person's love for their parents must be more than for their relatives and friends; The love for their relatives and friends must be more than for their neighbors; The love for their neighbors must be more than for their fellow-beings; And the love for their fellow-beings must be more than for stranger